Who are your services for? ​

• My services are for folks of all shapes, sizes and gender expressions. If you are disabled, trans, BIPOC, and/or femme, I encourage you to inquire if interested. Please note, training is for those 27 years or older and virtual consultation is open to 18 years or older (NO EXCEPTIONS).

How do I book a session with you?

• Please reach me directly via Signal, WhatsApp, or Email. You can find them linked in the contact page.​

Which payment methods do you accept?

• I accept cash, Venmo, and CashApp (deposits and package purchases are only accepted through Venmo or CashApp). For international folks, I'll also accept PayPal (5% fee).​

How big are your hands?

• It depends on who you ask, but I have smallish hands. 

Why should I come see you and not just have another top train me? 

• It goes without saying that many people don’t know what they are doing when it comes to fisting. Having an inexperienced top try to fist you can be extremely risky. But if you have an experienced friend who is willing to train you, then I say “go for it!”. For many people this isn’t the case, so my services are for those who are wanting a reliable, experienced fister to train them. 

  • Random fact: I worked closely with gastroenterologists at my previous job… so I know a thing or 2 about butts. ;) 

What supplies do you provide for training?

• I provide lube, pads, paper towels, gloves (if requested that I wear them) and sheets​

Do you provide toys during training? 

• I have quite the collection of toys that I will gladly use on trainees. However, they are currently for more advanced individuals. Trainees are welcome to bring their own toys if they'd like.

Do I have to prep (aka rinse out) before our session? 

• I ask that trainees come as fully prepared as possible to our sessions. Of course accidents happen, so touching up is totally okay. However, our session time will not be extended to accommodate touching up. Once you have booked a session with me, I will provide you with some prepping recs. 

Can you train me to be a top? 

• No. My training services are for receptive trainees only. As you can imagine, topping requires a lot of patience and attunement to ensure that the receptive partner stays safe. I am confident in my ability to train receptive trainees, but being a receptive trainer carries too many health risks for myself.

Why is the age requirement for training 27+?

• Simply put, I have found that younger folks are less likely to commit to training than those in their late 20s or older. My virtual consultation is still available to those who are 18+. 

I see you post content online. If I let you film our session and post it, could that cover my training fee? 

• No. I keep my content creation and training services completely separate. All training sessions are for payment only.

Can I fist you in exchange for training me? 

• No. Training is for payment only.

Are substances allowed during training?

• I allow trainees to bring poppers, marijuana and alcohol for light use. All other substances are not allowed. I do not use anything during training. If it seems like you are under the influence of any other drug(s), I will end the session and ask you to leave. No exceptions.

Will you be able to get a fist fully in during our first session? 

• There is no guarantee that I will be able to get a fist fully in if it’s your first time. It’ll all depend on how far along you already are. For your health and safety, I will not rush or force myself in. 

What sort of topics do you cover in your Virtual Consultation sessions? 

• You decide! Standard consultation appointments can cover best practices for fisting, standard fisting equipment, how to find other fisters, health considerations/research, social media/hook-up app insights, etc.  My consultation package is for those seeking to develop a self-training regimen that meets them where they are.  

  • It should be noted that I AM NOT a licensed clinician and cannot provide clinical advice/counseling for your sexual/physical/mental health or substance use.

Do you train couples?

• Yes, I offer couples training.